Tuesday, December 26, 2006

What kind of Friend are YOU???

In my last blog I discussed music, but eventually that led a little bit into not following the crownd and a tiny bit about friendship. Well, I am going to expand a little bit more on those two subjects. What does a friend mean to you? To me, a friend is someone that knows you really well because YOU told them about you and they didn't hear it from someone else in a gossip line or just guess becasue they THOUGHT they knew you so well. My freinds are the people I trust. I tell my friends about me because I trust them. A friend should never tell another something about yourself or another that is hurtful or something that shouldn't be shared. I once had a friend that shared a story with another girl that I had trusted would be safe with her. However, she told another girl and I was hurt. This may sound childish and girlish, but I still felt betrayed in a way. Not because this other girl found out a big secret about me, but becasue I couldn't trust this friend anymore. I don't tell her anything anymore. On the other hand I have a friend whom I tell everything to. She is a trustworthy friend and that is not only important, but I can have a lot a fun with her because I trust her. Freindships need to be chersihed not taken lightly. The only way to do that is to respect eachother fand that is what makes best freinds.

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