Friday, January 12, 2007

Dating: It's a Dangerous World Part 2

Guy's choice vs. Girl's choice dances? Me? I prefer the boy's choice. Less work, no hassle, just go and have fun. The difficult thing about highschool dating is the girl's choice and boy's choice dances. What's the difference? One of the main differences is the planning and preparation put into it by both genders. I am not saying that one does it better than the other, only that each does it differently. I have noticed that being a girl and planning a dance is a lot of hassle and stress. Boys take it easy and make it simple. I think that it is easier to be relaxed and easy going in the planning process rather than stressed and uptight. I know that a lot of girls take a lot of time on the dinner and the day-date, but the guys, they look for the cheapest restaurant in town. (Just Kidding Guys :)) I have a good friend that asked a guy to preference. She was excited at first but towards the end, her excitement decreased. Now all she wants is to get the date over with. Her planning is zero and doesn't really want to go. This is an example of girls choice dance that seems like murder to this girl. Because of this she stressed out even more because she's not looking forward to it with great anticipation. How is she she going to have fun with that kind of attitude? A guy in this scenario wouldn't stress or fret. He would be excited becasue to get into all the drama, which is another bif difference between guy's choice and girl's choice dating. Dating should be fun, easy, and AWESOME! Asking a girl or boy to a dance is a challenge and everyone, male or female, should make it an amazing experience without the stress.

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